Introduction
Today's blog is dedicated to marking five years since the passing of Bert Hellinger, the father of family constellations. To honor this occasion, I find it fitting to share with you my translation of his phenomenal essay on acknowledging what is - life and what it brings us. This essay perfectly illustrates how the task of acknowledging what is can be both challenging and rewarding. Join me in exploring life according to Hellinger and understanding how he views reality and how it can lead us to change and inner growth.
Bert Hellinger - Life
Life disappoints us to help us stop living in illusions and see reality as it is.
Life destroys everything unnecessary until only what is truly important remains.
Life doesn't give us rest so that we stop fighting and start accepting reality as it is, in all its beautiful and challenging aspects.
Life takes from us until we stop complaining and start appreciating what we have.
Life brings us people prone to conflicts so that we can heal and stop projecting what is inside us onto the outside.
Life allows us to fall repeatedly until we decide to learn the lesson and rise stronger.
Life misleads and places crossroads until we stop wanting to control and agree to flow like a river, with freedom and release.
Life places enemies in our path until we stop being reactive and learn to act from inner calm.
Life frightens us whenever necessary so that we overcome fear and restore our faith in ourselves and the world.
Life takes away our true love, neither granting nor allowing it, until we stop wanting to buy it with decorations and understand that it comes from within.
Life distances us from our loved ones until we understand that we are not this body but the soul within it.
Life laughs at us many times until we stop taking ourselves so seriously and learn to laugh at ourselves.
Life shatters us into as many pieces as necessary so that from them we can illuminate the light within us.
Life repeats the same message with blows and alarms until we start to truly listen.
Life sends storms and lightning towards us so that we can awaken and discover the power within us.
Life humiliates and defeats us until we decide to let the ego die and discover the humility and wisdom within us.
Life deprives us of property and greatness until we stop wanting property and greatness and begin to serve others with an open heart.
Life cuts our wings and prunes our roots until we no longer need wings and roots and can soar from our very being.
Life denies us miracles until we understand that everything is a miracle, and every moment is an opportunity for wonder.
Life shortens our time so that we learn to live fully in the moment, enjoy the present, and make the most of every second.
Life humiliates us until we become nothing so that we become everything and discover the unity within us.
Life doesn't give us what we want but what we need to grow and empower ourselves.
Life hurts, pains, and torments us until we release whims and learn to enjoy breathing and simple existence.
Life hides treasures from us until we begin the journey and go out to seek them with passion and curiosity.
Life denies us God until we see Him in everything and in every moment, in every experience.
Life asks, takes, cuts, breaks, disappoints, and shatters us...
Until only love remains within us.
Bert Hellinger
December 16, 1925 - September 19, 2019
A free translation of the text "LA VITA" found on the website of ROSSELLA TIRIMACCO: https://rossellatirimacco.com/2019/09/23/bert-hellinger-e-tornato-tra-le-stelle/
Philosophical Discussion
Life, as described by Hellinger, is a great teacher guiding us on the right paths to live and grow. It disappoints us to help us stop living in illusions and see reality as it is. Life destroys what is unnecessary so that we discover what is truly important. Through this description, Hellinger invites us to ask deep questions about the meaning of life and the journey we are on.
Through the challenges and difficulties life brings us, Hellinger emphasizes the importance of acceptance and reconciliation with reality. He explains how pain, loss, and challenges are opportunities for personal growth and spiritual development. Life doesn't allow us to rest on our laurels but pushes us to face reality and grow.
In a deep philosophical view, Hellinger sees life as a continuous learning system, where every experience is a lesson and every challenge is an opportunity. According to Hellinger, life guides us to become wiser, more humble, and more understanding individuals. Through dealing with challenges, we learn to appreciate what we have, discover our inner light, and connect to deeper places within us.
Epilogue
Summing up Hellinger's words, we see that life is a tough yet wise teacher. It doesn't give us what we want but what we need to grow and empower ourselves. Pain, loss, and challenges are an integral part of our journey, leading us to a deeper understanding of ourselves and the reality around us.
Hellinger's essay invites us to look at life from a new perspective - not as enemies to fight but as friends guiding us and teaching us the most important lessons. It invites us to open our hearts, accept reality as it is, and learn to enjoy breathing and simple existence.
To conclude, I will quote Hellinger: "Life denies us miracles until we understand that everything is a miracle, and every moment is an opportunity for wonder." Let us remember this and live our lives with gratitude, love, and a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us.
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